dimanche, février 07, 2010

Rev and Mrs. Haggard's pillow talk & other old world marriages

NPR's Tell Me More host Michel Martin conducted an extremely powerful interview of newly published author Mrs. Gayle Haggard, who was banished from her gay-bashing congregation in Colorado Springs after revelations that her Evangelical pastor/husband was outted by his drug-selling, gay prostitute boy-toy. I deeply appreciate that Michel Martin pressed Mrs. Haggard on what she found sinful about the situation. I was really struck by the sense of empathy that these leaders developed as a result of their experience. She also acknowledged that the way this group chooses to practice their faith is ridden with hate because even as leaders it had not occurred to them to see the sin from the perspective of the sinner. Although Mrs. Haggard tried to fall back on childhood sexual abuse to defend her husband's infidelity, I know that sometime in the future, she will have to accept that her husband wanted it! She has not resolved 'the sin of homosexuality' in her head by blaming some pedophile for her husband's homosexuality. While sexual abuse might contribute to his issues with honesty and commitment, we should be clear that the majority of homosexuals on this planet are not physically sexually abused. We are, however, overwhelmingly emotionally sexually abused across human societies, especially by folks like the Haggards who may have emotionally punished any effeminate boy or butch girl in their families or parishes. Each time a child hears 'sinner' or other derogatory words about their gender identity, it is emotional sexual abuse. In every major city in America, there is a strip along a popular street where these dejected boys turn tricks and numb their pain through substance abuse. Mr. Haggard undoubtedly found one such boy (and new accusations from Grant Haas pictured here), and benefitted from finding both the illicit sex and drugs in one deal! Certainly, there are more recent revelations of Haggard having sex with boys from within his parish). What say these faith leaders?

Where's the disparity in other inappropriate consensual illicit relationships with powerful men?

John Edwards got a baby-mama. Had he embraced that relationship, we might be in a different space. Look at the Haggards, and the Clintons staying together after infidelity. Sure, I want to know about the kind of parent and partner of any candidate- not just Mrs. Palin. What family and kinship means in America is not the traditional husband/wife marriage. What about the blended families? And this is one of the roots of modern homophobia and bans on so-called gay marriage. Folks are scared that gay people will actually queer marriage, that we will actually provide the space for consenting adults to Ask and Tell, to negotiate and determine the terms of their relationship, and do so outside the 'normal' model. That seems to scare folks to death, and public response to the Edwards, Haggards and Clintons- whose marriage was made a national agenda complete with maddening public funding around the impeachment. Again, had Hilary written the sort of book Mrs. Haggard wrote, she might be signing her husband's Don't Ask Don't Tell policy out of commission, among other truly human-family, community-building initiatives to expand and not contract rights, based on the immoral judgements made by a few fundamentalist folks who long for the good ole days when women and Negroes stayed in their place, and the world seemed in order. Indeed, the intersection of race and marriage has its own story between the powerful and oppressed, demonstrating that where power disparities are involved, there is never consent.
Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

jeudi, janvier 21, 2010

If Pat Robertson is right about Haiti...

If Haitians made a pact with the devil, then N*ggers must have sold our hearts, minds and souls to get us where we are today. The chronic poverty, for example, that pervades Diasporic communities around the globe, and the under-development of Africa all indicate that Farafina mogo (black skin people) must have literally evoked the dEVIL- by this logic. Racism as an ideology, for example, was created to solidify Black servitude, and justify our systematic class exploitation in the hearts and minds of those who both oppress and live under oppression.


Kudos to the Haitian ambassador to the United States for sending that fool Robertson to school!



Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

lundi, janvier 18, 2010

PRECIOUS: Commentary on THE Mo'Nique scene (ROFLMAO, not suitable for minors)

mercredi, janvier 06, 2010

Die Heiligen Drei Könige (Three Wise Men) Epiphany

Today is the day when we here in Germany are likely to see the harmony and cooperation across races that we still seek in other areas of our lives. Today is the day that Blackface is not a minstrel show, and jokes about Buckwheat being Obama won't hold any weight, like on other days. Today is the day when a Black child approaching a 'normal' German house will be greeted with open arms, and not suspicious glances. Today is the day in German speaking lands where the fellowship of humanity is observed above all that could separate us. Today is the day when we lay down our arms for armistice and at least pray for peace, for He is coming.

I am not a Christian, yet have a deep appreciation for the life of Jesus. Today is the day that we realize his birth, over and beyond his death. Today, I extend a hand to you, all of you who believe in the Prince of Peace, and that humanity must realize this dream, and that humanity can realize peace on Earth.

Happy 'Epiphany' to all my German Christian friends and family. Here's a sweet gift to you, building bridges of culture across the Atlantic.

samedi, décembre 26, 2009

Ubuntu- some thoughts as we move towards the new year.

jeudi, décembre 17, 2009

Reviewing comments for the video 'Black people in America hate immigrants?'

@COLTCOMANDER "Lawdy I sho loves living on food stamps in America.............shut up nigger"- this commentor's user picture is President Obama in Blackface with a slice of watermelon.

I am quoting this to remind more people that we all have the capacity to be humane or cruel, kind or nasty, ignorant or mindful. It's all just a choice that we must each make individually, each day of our lives. Do we touch with with out kindness or lash out with our own ignorance & shame? You decide!





Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

mardi, novembre 10, 2009

'Pimp of The Year' is a composite of today's best rappers

Uh-uhn! Why did his fish bowl have to break. Is he not the composite of 50 Cent, Nellie and a whole bunch of other modern damn day thugs! Dreaming behind bars of a better day, and can't to nothing but rap about cash once they get out of the pen or the ghetto. "Bitch betta have all MY money. She betta have all my cash!" I really, really am gonna get you, sucka!

Good Hair: Tangled Identities

"Who steal my bleaching," chants Fela, to which I add: Who steal my conk?

lundi, novembre 09, 2009

Advocate for the Public Option: Open Letter to my politicos: President Obama, Alabama Senators Sessions and Shelby

Dear President Obama/Senators Sessions and Shelby:

Please advocate and vote for our government to provide a viable option for healthcare coverage. This universal participation, what some are calling a "public option" must become available to the people in my community, as the hurdles facing our access have not been addressed by much of the public debate in the media, but also by your public statements on the matter. Worse is the public confusion built over these terms, rather than the actual substance of a system that serves is 'all', period. Any 'conditions' placed on the health harms our people- our American people, our Alabamians, our rich, our poor, our privileged, our disenfranchised. Disease knows no bounds, yet too often preys upon us along socio-economic lines. This implies that there are very fundamental aspects about us- the American people- that stand in the way of our health. Indeed, it's making us- all of us, as Swine Flu shows- sick!

Like many other fundamental goods and services, we, the people, need not leave something so basic exclusively to our ability and pleasure in shopping. Working together, the American people could provide a phenomenal benchmark of service that would raise the stakes for any private option, while making genuine health care, and not just sick-care, accessible to any and every person here. You and I both know that plenty of other nations already do this better than ‘US’. We even have the benefit, no less, of examining several existing and operating forms of public health care systems spanning the globe, from wealthy to poor nations. Why is our government so feeble as not to believe that we can provide comprehensive healthcare that is simply fabulous?

Please join the swelling mass public support for a public option. Please speak with us in clear terms about the progress congress is making, and please discourage this partisan politicking and polarized public debate. Healthcare is not a political game, but a genuine social gain to large to be measured in money, or other existing tools of assessment. However, the losses in my own family due to tobacco related cancer and heart-disease, obesity, addiction and diabetes, demonstrate the urgency of this matter and the need for comprehensive reform that also works to improve our daily lives, including access to fresh food, air and water. Fresh food and regular check-ups are the cheapest means to significantly improve health, let alone stimulate a myriad of macro and micro-economies.

We might even bring back Home Economics to schools, as well as mandate physical education at all levels of schooling. Indeed, this is not a political game to be played out by pundits and politicians seeking their own fame, present company excluded, of course (smile). Comprehensive healthcare reform is one of the surest and easiest ways to quickly stimulate our economy and show marked improvement in our daily lives, which only a public/private hybrid system can achieve. Please insist upon the public option.

I would also like to share a video that I have made discussing this issue, and would greatly appreciate a response to both this letter and the video (it's the age of the Internet, so surely your staffers are engaged in video as a tool of communication).

Sincerely,
Diepiriye S. Kuku-Siemons
Registered Alabama voter and Democrat Abroad.






Click on the appropriate name to contact these reps: President Obama/Senators Sessions and Shelby

samedi, octobre 31, 2009

The Award for Best Slapstick still goes to the Evans Family.

"I got $4 that I was saving to get my Fro together," has to be one of the best Sit-Com non-laugh lines ever!

lundi, octobre 26, 2009

Chris Rock On Tyra Banks Show October 08 Part 1: Come on out, Tyra.

Listen at Tyra trying to weasel out of the reality that she still is decolonizing her mind. NO! It would not take five years. You could chop that conk out right now, just like Tyra had some other girl come on her show and have her boyfriend cut off the woman's feet-length hair. A week of new-growth and she's got a new do, but even Tyra won't do that. It's ok, we all understand it's a process. No, she's not coming up out that conk just yet.

mardi, octobre 13, 2009

A GAY HERO: Victim (1961)

Wait: A gay hero? They are going to unmask the 'blacky' and solve the murder. But will all turn out dandy?

Pow! Boom! Crash! Crunch! No punches, just blows. This was 1961, and this scene at least was the birth of the gay hero. We see the people mourning over their losses, and folks belittling on others' debts- this is a real feel good flic with al the highs and lows of any melodrama. Instead of a red suit with emblems and tights, this hero wears his dignity and refusal to be silenced by shame.

lundi, octobre 12, 2009

Ask, tell: Gay or Straight, I'm still "the darker brother"

I am a second class citizen. I am Black and grew up in the 80's/90's at a time when racial denial ("we're all the" same was the motto). I am gay, and saw how narrow people defined their sexualities- even narrower than their race and religion. I mind the government ushering a different set of rights for me than for others. Still the Human Rights' Campaign (HRC) doesn't represent me (but rest assured I'd take it rather than leave it; luckily our choices are not as polarized as our thinking).


The right to conscription and the right to marry do not make it safer for me to walk down the street, does not protect me from hateful kids and teachers in schools, does not diminish the fervor of hate-speech, won't comfort or compensate me when I loose my job, and won't allow me to sponsor my foreign partner. I don't live in any Gay Ghetto, and don't feel that urban America is more sophisticated that rural. Like healthcare, we must focus on quality of life, not just 'equality', for few Americas truly enjoy the fruits of our potential. Straight people have virtually ruined 'family' by replacing communal with 'mine', so couples fight over money, property, cats and kids, then do the same between societies through the military. In both instances, DIALOGUE is missing, mutuality is absent and self-respect is lost to consumer values (hence the Nobel). ASK Americans if they believe in second class citizenship. TELL other Americans about living as one.


"Gay/straight, Black/white! Same struggle. Same fight!" was this year's grand motto at the march. "The most important rights are federal, not state" says organizer Cleve Jones who has fought continuously for anti-discrimination measures on the local level for generations. We need numbers, he urges, in order to keep up the wider momentum around extending rights. 
They keep on sayin': Go slow! And then they seamlessly continue to quickly send children into battle. 
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they block universal healthcare or any measure that would 'cover' everyone, even the least of us- and then they mock and chide the least of us, calling us lazy and without 'merit'.  
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they continue to expect less of him and more of her- mommy'll do it; she always does. 
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they preach peace and wage war.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But kids who come to school hungry and tired already do too slow!
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But white collars steal and blue collars get a raw deal. 
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they actually still believe that 'merit' is the only factor determining our success. 
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But no one really wants to talk, and fewer are interested in compromise.  
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But that's just the trouble: Too slow!
"The only thing they're going to be putting pressure on is the grass,"  says America's first openly gay Congressperson Barney Frank. So, what will work? What will open Americans' hearts and minds to the daily struggle gay and lesbian people face? What will enlighten the masses about how we all create the closet through our assumptions and denials, our judgements and our trials? What will make Americans understand that rights don't diminish, but enhance the greater good by nearing us all to personhood?


I say: Come out! Be clear about who you are and what you stand for. And, importantly, listen. Consider other's views. If your position is so strong and so immensely forthright, then earnestly considering difference won't whitewash you, nor will extending rights diminish you. In fact, 'coming out'  debases the voices of fundamentalists on any sides. Come out with what YOU mean by 'freedom' and 'peace'. Dr. King certainly said war is not the answer, only peace and dialogue create genuine and sustainable change.


Coming out is a moral disposition that asks us to consider exactly with what we stand, encourages us to sincerely listen to the position of others, thereby cultivating mutuality; it for brings us all closer to realizing those dreams. Queer people used to own 'Coming out' but the primary tenant of the concept is useful for us all: Be true to yourself. 


Come out! Come out to your kids. If you're a 'liberal' minded person, come out to your kids and neighbors, and discuss the meaning of citizenship. Come out about the violence and hedonistic materialism we're exposed to in our daily lives- from hateful and demeaning speech on the streets, radio, TV and the net. Come out about your feelings surrounding the delegitimization of the administration, and the polarization of the media. Come out about what 'we' can do, not just what 'you' can do. Come out from under the systematic social inequality that has come to define America. Come out from cowardice and fear of 'the other'.




Click here for an NPR report on 2009's march, and here for coverage in the New York Times.

vendredi, octobre 09, 2009

Nobel Peace Laureates

Dr. Wangari Maathi won the Nobel Peace Prize in 2004 for her efforts with the Green Belt Movement.
President Barack Obama won the Nobel Peace Prize in 2009 for his efforts towards strengthening diplomacy and international dialogue. The two are seen speaking in Nairobi in 2006 when the then Senator Obama visited the motherland.






















Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

lundi, octobre 05, 2009

Baller, author, 'Bama native Charles Barkley affirms 'race' matters in Alabama's race

Barkley, former B-baller, and author of Who's Afraid of a Large Black Man?, among other titles listed on the Library of Congress' site, chimed in on our current state of affairs:

mercredi, septembre 30, 2009

A Different World: Mammy Dearest Part 3

You just gotta see this.

Dodge Ball and Too Much Pressure on Str8 Couples

NPR's Tell Me More recently reported on Hampton University's new National Center on African-American Marriages and Parenting, which opens this week with a summit on the so-called family. This so-called 'family' is inevitably anchored down to two people- the ideal American statistic. Here, host Michel Martin prompts Hampton University Professor and chair of Psychology, Dr. Linda Malone-Colon.

MARTIN: What about same sex marriages?

Prof. MALONE-COLON: I think that's a whole different issue that requires, I would say, maybe its own summit.

(Soundbite of laughter)

Prof. MALONE-COLON: But the masses of African-Americans are heterosexual and that's where we're seeing a real problem that's having an effect on our children. So that's where I choose to and where I've been called to, if you will, give my attention.

* * *

Dear Ms. Martin,

I truly wish that you had not let both guests off so easily with squirming out of answering for their homophobia. They dodged your question about gay marriage like champs, and that points to the greatest problem I had with what these folks are teaching about Black family. There is far too much pressure placed on the heterosexual couple. We preach that it takes a community, but we place marriage on such a pedestal, distance ourselves, and our child rearing more and more form our family and kin. Sure, this is exactly why so many Americans are so fascinated with the first family's constellation- of course grandparents, aunts, uncles, 1st, 2nd, 3rd cousins are welcome.

Professor Malone-Colon chucks up the Black family crisis to: "...increasing rates of divorce, separation, out of wedlock births, cohabitation." This is precisely my contention- far too much pressure is placed on people to live in a normative, heterosexual, monogamous, life-long committed relationship before God. The nuclear family is the problem with Black family in America today, too many folks feeling inadequate and dysfunctional simply because they do not fit the nuclear mold. If we'd embrace our difference, then we'd be more open and apt at embracing each other across culture, age, religion, class and sexual orientation. We'd expect everyone to parent- period.

Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

mardi, septembre 29, 2009

See this documentary: Color Adjustment part 2 of 8

'Don't scare the white people into noticing you're a Negro'. Nat King Cole and a host of others represented back in the day. Here are some interesting musings on the above.

Tongues Untied - Dance My Ticket To

Essex Hemphill reading his poem "In the Life" in Marlon Riggs' film 'Tongues Untied'. It's all that.

A Wise Latina and 1964's Black Like Me

lundi, septembre 28, 2009

Unreported World-Nigeria: Fire in the Delta Part 2


Unreported or 'under' reported, or perhaps all out mis-reported! I visited my family in the Delta, and apparently this perspective drives my view and sympathies. The journalist's smirk betrays the seriousness of polluting water around the delta people who have lived in harmony with the waters for several millennia. Global oil prices? Doesn't it matter that it's hard to fill up the tank in Port Harcourt?!? Oil analysts? Just put your hand in the water, slick!

vendredi, septembre 25, 2009

USA's Afghan Strategy

Where are the American insurgents?

jeudi, septembre 10, 2009

Hitler, AIDS & other WMD

"AIDS is a mass murder" on the highest scale. HIV/AIDS is a weapon of mass destruction. You'd better believe that unless you speak about sex with your partner(s)- including history, likes and dislikes- then you're a potential victim. Check out the video below.


Be proactive! Don't give disease a chance.
(racism is a disease)


Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

lundi, septembre 07, 2009

The H-bomb gets new clothes


Accused of elitism with promoting a new and expensive clothing line, Harvard University went out and rounded up its Asians for the photo shoot and even managed to find get one of the Negroes who, unsurprisingly, is apparently on an athletic scholarship!

It’s nothing new for the university to profit on branded clothing," writes New York Times reporter Michael M. Grynbaum in his September 2009 article on the matter. "Any tourist in Harvard Square can pick up a JanSport hoodie for $30 or so. But, given a history of wealth and exclusion, prep at Harvard comes with its own set of complex connotations." Well, athletic scholarship or not, anyone can look the part.

dimanche, septembre 06, 2009

We the people can at least agree on raising our cholesterol (but screw universal healthcare)

Indeed, we are the nation that makes complete fan-FAIR of deep fried butter, and at the same time conclude that pooling our population's health care needs is a bad idea. So, we can less agree on universal health care than eating ourselves into debt and death- because folks who eat friend butter tend to have expensive health care costs, and lower tax revenues because they die early and miss many days of work! Local economies are collapsing over lack of taxes, but, oh, let's fry some butter and 'tuck in' as the Brits say, dig right on in. We're quickly becoming the unhealthiest population on the planet and probably already would be if not for the number of immigrants who come- both they stay and have kids who quickly learn to eat as we do, and probably fried lard is next. Ain't that America.


American Healthcare: 1st hand experiences in the wealthiest nation

"Most of the people that are out there are no better off than I am, protesting against healthcare...Humana determines...." too much!

mercredi, septembre 02, 2009

In Living Color - The Black People's Awards

This show hilarious when it aired in the 90's, and I watched it in high school. This episode is from October 1992- during season four of a total of five seasons.
Now, as an adult, disappointed that the Black Best Friend- also know as Magic Negro- is still a mainstay on big and small screens. "Sassy next door neighbor?" "Best scared brother?" These ARE the 'ca-tag-go-rees' that genuinely exist today. Indeed, the bit with Whoopi being the only Black actress in the entire category is a situation still mirrored today, where a handful of roles go to a handful of talents. In Living Color really got it right this time!

lundi, août 31, 2009

Which Way Is Up? - Full Movie, part 3

What kind of sick, sadistic sh*t is this? He stalks her, accost her in the park, lies to her, falsifies information to win her, tramples upon her, attempts to rape her, cries after her as she runs away...and within a few magical flashes of silliness later, she's naked cooking for him, gives into his passive-aggressiveness, and makes him promise never to sleep with any other woman again, including his wife. What kind of sick fantasy is this? This is some stereotypical male fantasy world where women really do just submit.

samedi, août 22, 2009

Reply to Congressman's response on healthcare ("and sometimes I wonder why I didn't become a debutante")

Dear Congressman Bright,

While I sincerely appreciate the form letter that you sent me, my aunt sits right now in your jurisdiction mediating a virtual fight between her doctor and her health care insurer, and believe me Humana (her plan from Kentucky where she retired) has the upper hand. Her doctor prescribed her an electric wheelchair and the insurance company will probably decline this at the end of this battle. Recently another doctor prescribed her some medicine but the insurance company refused to cover that medicine until she channeled through one or two other medications which they already approve. It's like a game of Roulette to them, and perhaps, with your vote, her chances are better at the casino on the Native Americans' land around the corner.

Be well,
Diepiriye
LitGriot.com


"Everything interdependent, interconnected. If you harm others, you get suffering. If you help others, you get benefit."- Dalai Lama


On Wed, Aug 12, 2009 at 1:53 AM, Congressman Bobby Bright wrote:

Dear Diepiriye Sungumote Kuku Kuku-Siemons,

Thank you for contacting me with your views on the America's Affordable Health Choices Act. I appreciate your comments and I welcome this opportunity to share my thoughts.

As I visit with the citizens of southeast Alabama, I hear about the challenges many families face in getting good and affordable health care. Please be assured that I understand these concerns and will continue to work diligently on your behalf to increase access to quality and affordable health care. As you may know, Congress has been drafting and debating health care reform for several months now. I look forward to working with my colleagues on both sides of the aisle when we return in September to ensure that common sense solutions are considered by Congress.

Making quality health care affordable to every American is no simple task. The issue is incredibly complex, and Congress must ensure that any changes we make do not undermine the stability and quality of our current health care system. Recently, several House committees worked together to develop health care reform legislation, America's Affordable Health Choice Act, H.R. 3200. As I continue to review the 1,018 page bill, I remain firm in my opposition to it, though I believe there are several important initiatives in the bill.

One of my main concerns is with the creation of a public health insurance option, also known as the public option. The public option, as outlined in the legislation, would be offered through the Health Insurance Exchange and must meet the same requirements as private plans regarding benefit levels, provider networks, consumer protections, and cost-sharing. The legislation will also require the public plan to offer basic, enhanced, and premium plans. Additionally, the plan will finance the costs of the public plan through revenues from premiums. Federal funds will only be used to create the program. However, I am concerned that the public option will potentially undermine the competitiveness of a private system. We simply cannot implement an overreaching government-based program. Instead, I am committed to finding a market-based approach that can insure more American citizens.

As you may know, the Blue Dog Coalition, of which I am a member, has not taken a formal position on the health care legislation but has expressed a set of principles and concerns to the committees and House leadership. I am proud of the work the coalition has done to slow the process and allow members to consider the bill and discuss its provisions with constituents during the month of August. Over the past several weeks, many compromises were made between the committees and the individual Blue Dogs. One of changes negotiated increased the exemption for small businesses that do not provide health insurance. Another compromise allowed doctors and hospitals to negotiate reimbursement rates for participating in the public health insurance option. Though these were positive developments, they do not go far enough in my mind. The current bill still relies too heavily on taxing individuals and small businesses, and the overall cost of H.R. 3200 remains too high.

Please be assured that when it comes to health care reform, my priorities are maintaining quality of care, alleviating burdensome costs for small businesses, and expanding access to care by implementing cost saving mechanisms. Consequently, I am opposed to the America's Affordable Health Choices Act in its current form because it does not appropriately address these concerns. I look forward to working with Republicans and Democrats in the House and Senate on drafting and debating health care reform legislation. I am aware that this is a tremendously complex bill, but please know that you can call my offices at any time as additional questions arise. I am honored to represent you and look forward to our continued conversations. I will always keep your thoughts and concerns in mind as Congress moves forward on this important issue.

Again, thank you for contacting me. I appreciate your thoughts and value your input. Please do not hesitate to contact me or my office regarding this or any other matter that is important to you. If you would like to learn more about my positions on the issues or receive regular updates on what we are working on in Congress, please visit my website at www.bright.house.gov and sign up for my e-Newsletter.


Sincerely,

Bobby Bright
Member of Congress

Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry

lundi, août 17, 2009

Normal, regular life for women in uniform? See: Sex in the Army - USA

"1 in 3 women" are assaulted in the army, according to some estimates. Rape and murder cover-up of LaVena Lynn Johnson is just the tip of the iceberg. Humiliation, constant teasing where the choices are between bitch and whore? And to whom does one complain in the military? Assailants go unpunished and victims are further victimized. Oversight is under-performed, especially when rape and sexual harassment in the military exceeds that of the civilian population.

"Kill herself, set herself on fire, set the tent on fire."

Deaths amongst female soldiers in this way is deplorable. It's sad when civilians have to fight these battles.

"The Closet" Great short flic!

From the star: An old man recalls the moment that defined his life, in which his innocent friendship with a neighboring boy is crushed by the boy's angry father. Starring Andy Scott Harris.

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Classic Male Privilege: John Amaechi on Paula Zahn

"You must fall on your sword for us to give you a chance!" Homophobia and heterosexism is widespread, and yet no journalist addresses this...they just want to swordsman.

It's insulting how the reporter harps on this point, and exposes the misogyny in our societies: Are you attracted to any teams members? The underlying assumption is that men prey on others, period. When straight men are attracted to women, andy woman is fair game? Well, that's at least how many act, and we say nothing better.

Male privilege, like heterosexual privilege, like white-skin privilege, is invisible. We can assume that everyone is straight, and that's our privilege. We can assume that white is the norm, and all others are special, or 'different'. We assume that everyone wants to be rich, so we all spend like we're wealthy.

Moving against hte grind is not the easiest, and raising the issue of privilege is even harder, basically because most of us are so unaware. Speak about how race plays into everyday situations and folks are mad because privilege is unmasked. That's what happened here.

What if a team member drops the soap? The reporter said everything short of this, and resisted being so blunt. But what if? If a homosexual so devious that any available man is set to be preyed upon? Or, do we give ourselves so little credit that we simply accept that men prey on everyone? The reporter's line of questioning reveals the way in which we accept male privilege as a truism. Amy male will prey on any flesh; so a gay male will intrude upon his teammates.

Amaechi, who is of Nigerian decent, refused to answer these questions uncritically. Besides, the reality of homophobia has ALWAYS been that it threatens to arouse the same-gender loving feelings that are potentially held in any and all of us. All the sport-man camaraderie, the rough-housing and slapping, all proxy for the actual affection many men long for. Yet, rather than give a man a hug and simply say "I love you," many men are more able to use their fists and spew words of hate. Indeed, we live in a society that teaches males many more ways to hate than to love. The homosexual- HIS very existence- stands in the face of such male privilege. This, too, is threatening.

Quincy Jones, Jackson's Mentor

A bit of dialogue about the mutual mentor/disciple relationship between Michael Jackson and Quincy Jones.

vendredi, août 14, 2009

SoVo: Youth to speak out at town hall meeting on bullying

Americans are grand at speaking about the theory of citizenship. Yet, when it comes to the practical application of citizenship, we lag far behind our idealism. Town Hall meeting where citizens are bullied, and healthcare debates where fundamentalists hold the chains of abortion all ignore the facts about the many Americans left far behind, where the theories just don;t match. Thanks goodness for youth!

See original article at Southern Voice: Youth to speak out at town hall meeting on bullying

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dimanche, août 09, 2009

G.I. Joe Movie Not American Enough


I resent being taught to demonize any other form of economy or governance than free-market, unregulated capitalism. GI JOE, Wonder Woman, Superman, Captain America, all indoctrinate kids into a way of life so that we cannot even make choices free of these inherent bias that we may not even realize we have. It colors even how these health care debates go when Americans believe that anything government implies communism, and that's bad all around.
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

mercredi, août 05, 2009

Combing the kink out


Anything for straight hair. The first lady of the nation and the first lady of Hip-Hop all have straightened hair. "Just to get those kinks out." Every girl in my family has gone through this and I wonder why we really need to get our hair "done." Rough. Abusive? What about charges? Haven't we all already abandoned her, anyway. We've already told her that she ain't no body unless your hair gets done! Why can't we be nappy, kinky, happy some-bodies! People regularly talk as if nappy hair was the most negative thing on the planet. We won't feel good about ourselves with this in tact. We've long since abandoned this girl.

Nappy ass hair Broke ass kitchen

If we are to be honest about who we are, white America needs to know the pains MOST Black girls go through in order to arrive at an acceptable- let alone respectable- place in this nation. Indeed, all our Black icons straighten their hair. Most, like the mother in this video.

Self-hate amongst the formerly enslaved runs deep, and no amount of denial can mask Black-Americans’ attempts to not be so damn black. Consider this video circulating on YouTube each time you view Beyoncé on stage, hopping and hollering, gallivanting and hair shaking.

‘Everybody wants hair that moves’ my mother says. Sure, whites tan, spending hours and major cash on bronzing tools to look like they are not! Yet, the power equation is wholly different for the oppressed. While whites can flip on any channel, open any glossy, or page through any journal and see all sorts of images that show the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly.

“Nappy head girl” the adult woman insults, straddling the small child down on the floor, briskly combing out her hair. How ever will she learn to love herself when at home all she hears is that she's born wrong. The clear statement here is that your ‘nappy ass hair’ is just plain WRONG. Another young girl can be heard commenting in the background. She is perhaps the videographer, capturing a ritual to which she is probably already numbed, as are many reading these words. Straightened nappy hair is the primary way that most are exposed to nappy hair.

My charcoal skin little cousin has but few resources that remind her that she’s not just ‘Dark but beautiful’ as people have said, as if to excuse her for being s damn dark. Yet, none of her teachers in school remind her, none of the glossies we buy tell her, none of the channel surfing we do on cable, and none of the music on the radio convinces her that Black is beautiful.


That’s why “I’m Black and I’m proud” is political. And for those few years when James Brown was between his conk, for the few years that the Godfather of Soul wore his own natural hair, he made it a statement. He picked his nappy hair out, releasing all but a few of those kinks, to form an Afro- a hairstyle that requires much ado about nothing; though admittedly it was much, much more than the legacy of the nation’s first female and first Black millionaire had done.

Madam C. J. Walker made millions helping Black people get rid of those naps. Have we felt any freer? Years later, the wealthiest (self-made) woman in America is Black. And, no place does she go with her won natural hair. It’s damn straight. She’s got her own TV network, and save for her roles in The Color Purple and Beloved, her kinks are long gone.

Nappy Ass Hair:

mardi, juillet 28, 2009

911 Call, Police Audio In Gates Arrest Released By Police


This officer WANTED to make an arrest, by any means necessary. That's the real deal here. That's the frightening deal, here. Liten up: A-scuse me missa occifa, but, uhm, wuz all this neccassary?
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost

lundi, juillet 27, 2009

E Lynn Harris passes this July

His books opened many conversations and made real the reality of sexuality in many ways for many folks. This author will be missed.

dimanche, juillet 26, 2009

Tim Wise on White Privilege

mardi, juillet 21, 2009

"Wife-beaters-n-jeans!" Chris Brown speaks out.

Real men don't hit women...

Ever think that we'll arrive at a point were we reject violence between men as much as we've punished this guy for beating a woman? Ever think that women like Beyoncé and Fantasia will stop looking for a soldier, and not get so dan disappointed when that solider doesn't know ow to turn it off?!? Listen to them talking about men in "Wife beaters and jeans," and listen to the ways we've condemned Chris for actually being a wife beater!?! Who's the hypocrite here? And what about the way we expect women to be the main caretakers for boys, yet let these same women off the hook when these boys grow to men who fail to respect women or even themselves? Dare one ask if men can be caretakers, and, gain, more than Soldiers.

Real men hit men
Real men tussle with boys
Real men teach boys how to hit!

We raise these boys into men who abuse, but get mad when they bring the violence back home. Who is really to blame in these cases? We sing about it and award ladies for asking for tough guys.
But They Told Me
A Man Should Be Faithful
And Walk When Not AbleAnd Fight Till The End
But I'm Only Human
-Michael Jackson
They told me a man should be a man, should take care of thangs and always be in control, 'By any means necessary'. They told me that I was a sissy for not wanting to beat on other boys, for shying away from guys and a true faggot for not picking up my fists. They told me that calling me a 'girl' should insult me, but like any girl, I'm only human. Aren't we all!?!

Norbit! Is spouse abuse genuinely abuse?
Moreover, what about the law? What about domestic violence versus battered wives? Can wives beat husbands and suffer similar consequences as men hurting women? How many violent mothers are given total custody of kids in cases of divorce? And, what about emotional abuse?Is our legal system truly blind? What about same-sex couples? Would stigma even prevent us from demanding official intervention? Worse, in most societies, a man cannot legally be raped! Boys are protected under molestation laws, but what about sexual assault of men? Non-existent for most.


Hood boys and whores
Soldiers and battered girls
We like our men to keep it real
And Michael Jackson is a sissy!

I sing the body electric. I chant for girls who put out albums with two songs about tough guys and the rest about dead-beat dads. Aren't they talking about the very same guy? I celebrate the me yet come. I weep for my sisters who dream of a man to protect her from other men, then weep themselves when she needs protection from him. I toast to my own reunion, when I shall embody the Earth. I look forward to the day, when we really can reconcile who we are, who we want to be and who we shall become. I chant for the day when we truly check ourselves first and judge later.

dimanche, juillet 12, 2009

Obama goes to Ghana

I love that brother Obama went to Africa, but we get it: Africans will have to carry Africa- including, and perhaps especially those of us in the Diaspora. Frankly, the evidence suggests that no one really cares but us (as clear as when folks visit Africa and come back with stories of wilder-beats, NOT people, NOT triumph & happiness).

Listening and reading British and American news outlets, this is the only sound-bite put forth:
The West has often approached Africa as a patron or a source of resources rather than a partner. But the West is not responsible for the destruction of the Zimbabwean economy over the last decade, or wars in which children are enlisted as combatants.


It would have been REAL if Obama had spoken about the systemic issues breaking individual African nation-state's efforts at Democracy and global trade. Yet, seeking the absolution for past ills, the right to forget rather than remember, forgive and move on, Obama chose to side with the apologists. The trouble is, those who are genuinely sorry take actions and corrective measures, not jumping in the blame game. The sound-bites absolve the West of any responsibility to create change here and no. Though I have no doubts that brother Obama will stand behind his words of raising the continent- he is a part f the African Diaspora- in ways more sincere than any of his predecessors, his performance on his first trip to Africa as the American president was mediocre.

Obama should have started with the man in the mirror- Africa's problems are already blasted across any news outlet, as exhibited by the morose tone any report takes at the very mention of Africa.

Obama is clearly not a descendant of cotton, cane or tobacco pickers. The gesture, however, is immensely appreciated. Can't wait to see what 'Chelle, Malia and Sasha have to say about this visit in the years to come. My mother and I visited Gorée Isle off the coast of Dakar together back in 1999. It afforded us an unprecedented quietude and opportunity to cultivate compassion for all involved in the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade.


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lundi, juin 29, 2009

LitGriot on AlJazeera: Dancing to fight discrimination in India - 27 Jun 09

OK, comment please. I am not sure what to say.

samedi, juin 27, 2009

Jackson 5 IN AFRICA

Wait! Is this really were Michael got his confidence in polyrhythmic beats and complex rhymes....

mercredi, juin 24, 2009

48 Hours. Responses to the Outlook article "India is Racist, and Happy About it"

Despite the conflama, most of the comments left on Outlook's site in response the article which the editors have given the title "India is Racist, and Happy About it," have been intriguing. The bulk of the comments supported the idea of this dialogue around racism in India, and link it to well-needed conversations around caste discrimination. A bulk of the folks who left comments within the first 48 hours of the article hitting the stands felt that my article treaded rather lightly. Suresh in the USA writes this damning assessment:
You seem to be willfully ignoring other evidence that clearly says Indians are racists. The authors partner is a white. Falling head over heels in trying to please a white man while totally ignoring the black man is not just fascination of white skin as you put it. That is racism pure and simple. The fact that an Indian is fascinated by white man is racism. The fact that Indians make passes at a white woman or a north East Indian woman thinking that she is easy too is a form of racism. The fact that Indians ignore or insult a Blackman is racism. The fact that A Blackman was told to come back on Blacks only day at a night club too is racism. And all this does not include the discrimination faced by Dalits.I have seen how the black people were made fun off at Surathkal REC, near Mangalore. Also many used to consider Africans. Irani and Iraqi students to be dumb.
Folks on the dissent and denial side weighed heavily amongst the comments. Folks offer personal anecdotes and incidences of how hierarchy is learned early in life. People are not born racists, for example, as Vikram from Visakhapantnam reminds us:
The infants who stared at you are not born with racism in their head or heart. It's their parents and society who "guide" these infants to be racist from a very early age. Did they smile at you or detest you, when they stared?
Despite the conflama- the conflict and drama, (or perhaps Tamasha), the tone of most users was appreciative for the opportunity to have these ideas circulate widely and provoke public discourse. Rajiv from Las Vegas writes:
Dear Diepiriye, You have highlighted something which is not part of public or private discourse in Indian life. Parents seldom teach their kids sensitivity and respect for diversity. Quite surprising given we are such a diverse country! Thanks for your article.
"Lets face it kuku, you are different form the average indian," begins yet another comment before spewing all sorts of stereotypes, revealing all sorts of internalized conflama. I am amazed at how several users have tried to explain away this situation by describing me as a " tall, big, black African,"according to Vijay Agarwal. Pear, who posted several follow-up comments in his/her own defense write: "It is not the colour black that is being gawked, it is the accompanying huge powerful bodies they possess.". Others have conflated my ethnicity and nationality, questioning even what Americans means, albeit by their own definitions, not those used in America herself. Vivek from New York writes:
Has anybody noticed that Mr. Kuku is just an "african-american" and not a proper "amrican". It's not even an issue let alone racism for him. [sic]
Vivek may never truly embrace America since he clearly rejects any expectation of being embraced himself since he, too is not a "proper" American; in fact his attitude seems rather improper. Fortunately, another user set him straight. Empowered writes:
There we go again, blindly defending our country. It is the culture stupid! The great Indian culture that entitles us to ‘gawk’ or stare at anything that stands out. And how dare foreigners come into this country and not ‘adjust’ to the culture. Of course, when we go to other countries, we scream ‘racism’ at the smallest incident.
Vinod from Bangalore even reduces the events surrounding the riots and trail around the beating of Rodney King as a failed plea of Blacks to gain the confidence of whites. I am still laughing hard at this one. In this commentators own words:
One small amateur video by some one on the American TV some times back where the white policemen hitting and beating a black youth like how an animal is treated was broadcast ed resulting in heinous riots by the blacks.
In fact, Vinod was quite enraged at raising the topic of racial bias in India, and left several such messages, most attacking my personhood rather than the subject at hand:
KUKU should have come along with his black female companion which could have reduced his tensions and the strange experiences being in India.I suspect some missionary took this KUKU to the media.
Dont worry about the general population of this country.we are us and not for the foreigners or their culture.You are free to go along with KUKU to Suadn or USA and happily get married to him as now Gay marriage is legalized there instead of simply cursing India and its common people. [sic]
Many users here as well as on the YouTube videos which I posted examining the gawking in Delhi streets (or atop a mountain in Karnataka), believe that it's just a matter of looking different, willful exaggeration and acting out, as I were an attention seekers. Ameetbhuvan asks: "Will an indian walking the streets of milan or L.a or any city abroad in a dhoti and veshthi draw the stares you seem to be so sensitive about in india? [sic]" Again, the underlying assumption here is that one can simply switch difference on and off as easily as one throws off a sarong and dons western style pants- hence, anyone who doesn't is trying to stick out. In addition to believing that Blacks are somehow massive and physically powerful, there are those who believe they hype that we are 'cool' and "funky" by sheer nature. Ameetbhuvan writes:
if a guy sitting behind you in a bus tries touching your hair( usually tied in really funky fun and different styles , and colours) it can also be out of simple humna curiosity. [sic]
Indeed, curiosity is where this began. As for my own curiosity, I am interested in Afro-Indian love stories of all sorts. Where are the Indo-African families, couples, friendships and stories of cooperation, collaboration and mutuality? That's the story to explore.

mardi, juin 23, 2009

Tyra Bank's S&M and misogyny.

First she was in a frock and then she wore sexy, slinky clothes baring her arms. Tyra held her down while her man ceremoniously chopped off her hair. She may need a therapist and though I value the therapeutic properties of the salon interaction, a haircut was not what this women needed badly to solve her "security blanket" problem. An old queen was co-opted into the fold- every diva needs a fag to dress her up right. The old queen read this girl her rights and called her dirty.

Tyra Banks wears a weave and cut this young women's hair off shorter than her own. "And do you wanna continue to look older and feel older?" Tyra asks as the young women cries. Tyra coerces her man into sheering this lady, and even brags that the woman's meter long hair will go into her hair weave fund. And Tyra's little S&M pun revealed the real story of what's going on. Women hating. And worse, women hating women.

Before and after.
Sexy arms. "I don't know who this person is!" She says mean things and brags about her show's ability to transform lives through rich hair color. "Precision" hair and designer make-up made her a real decent fiance. And that's the real story- her worth on the market. it's as if Tyra, the audience, she show's staff, and the fashion faggots are all there to make sure that straight man is titillated.


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"Black dance in Asia", a new initiative of ADDLife! World

This was some serious Afro-Indian love.

Reading Outlook Magazine: 'India Is Racist, And Happy About It'

'India Is Racist, And Happy About It': Outlook Magazine article, Part 1 Intro

vendredi, juin 19, 2009

Quick Critique of 'unradical' Feminist Critique

Most so-called feminist critiques of Chinua Achebe’s Things Fall Apart reduce men to husbands, and women to wives. If we sincerely count gender and gender relations, we should count correctly. It may be a Christian fixation that prioritizes the heteropatriarchal marriage over all other relationships as individuals and with kin and Klan. In addition, in the Things Fall Apart society, these other relations were contributors to individuals' identities. Certainly, this is riddled with conflict, the same as any relationship faces conflict, and perhaps confrontation. One might even argue that the misogyny in the pre-colonial society was, too an unresolved conflict- a narrative within a narrative of conflict resolution.

Over four books, Achebe demonstrates a spiral of conflict and resolution, layering these stories, and having them mirror one another. This means that the internal conflicts mirror the one's the characters face in the world, and brilliantly, Achebe breaths life and depth to his characters by demonstrating how their internal dialogue informs their view of themselves as well as their actions. So, fate is a clear matter of cause and effect in the Things Fall Apart cosmological world.

This sort of cause and effect relationship towards fate- distinct from what many view as tragic in Greek tragedies in skirting this issue- implies a culture of dialogue, not suppression, or repression. It acknowledges conflict as inevitable to humanity, and anyways conflict provides instances to apply community-centered dialogue and therefore create widespread growth and change. It therefore implies that an individual has not only the right but also responsibility to express their authentic selves.

Suppressing feminine traits is the axis upon which the main protagonist spin throughout Achebe’ tetralogy. In things Fall Apart, Achebe laid out the intergenerational crisis in gender identification. The main protagonist rejected his own father’s feminine traits and artistic inclinations, and as a result rejected his own effeminacy. He expressed this rejection outwardly, projecting this hatred of the feminine onto anyone or thing which he can label as feminine. He collects and beats women, abuses and murders children and is dismissive of local custom and beliefs. The crisis in Things Fall Apart lay as heavily on this crisis of masculinity, which Achebe mirrors with the cross-cultural crisis with the presence of Christian proselytizers.

Naturally, this power has the potential to get abused, and there is still social hierarchy, i.e. oppression. But the genius of this book and of the African culture that Achebe describes, provides an outlet for those inevitable conflicts: Dialogue. It’s when dominance enters the game and closes the possibility of difference that things really began to fall apart. Certainly, Achebe has clear views about this crisis, but he in no means romanticizes heteropatriarchy. Indeed, his is mainly a treatise on masculinity, as much as gender is necessarily deconstructed in the creative, artistic, and empirical world. Achebe wrote some bomb-ass novels!
If we sincerely count gender and gender relations, we should count correctly. Reducing gender to binaries and fixing them in their normative heteropatriarchal role- husband and wife- divests from the potentialities fulfilled in other roles as parents, children, grand-parents-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, caregivers, friends.

Imbedded in this feminist analysis is an idolization and idealization of heterosexuality so much so that it convinces us that this one relationship should trump all others, with little deviation. Forgiveness, in that constellation, is divine and often only comes with divine intervention.

In a culture of dialogue, however, and one responsible and responsive towards humanity, forgiveness is a daily expression of gratitude for life. It views love as cyclic, an idea build on care and reinforced through ritual. Certainly, oppression emerges, yet in his capacity, Achebe made a critique of the causes and mal-effects of misogyny- that character ultimately killed himself, so much did he hate an aspect of femininity in him. Hence, the suicide of Achebe’s main character is one important critique of heteropatriarchy and heteronormativity- as if Achebe encouraged, as traditional Ibo society does, a balance between masculine and feminine energy in everyone.

Suppressing either, and certainly hating one, would lead to an identity crisis. Any feminist critique which centers upon the Mary/Joseph (heteronormativity by any means necessary) relationship ignores human agency and avenues to both express and experience care while hoisting the mantle of women’s liberation. Liberating humans from their sense of humanity is alienating and as crisis forming as the myriad of effects of the gender-identification crisis one faces anywhere-albeit along specific and culturally informed axes.

Yet, any critique, which only regards the heterosexual relationship, abandons other areas of care and support. This abandonment is repeated as a self-fulfilling prophecy- abandoning care leads to abandoning care. Hence the love and abandon that dominates our pop music should come to no surprise Heterosexual romantic love will conquer all. And when that love goes bad- kick him to he curb, cut off his balls or burn her house down. When conflict arises, they easily abandon one another. All goes as expected.

See original article that inspired this critique here:

A Feminist Analysis of Chinua Achebe's Novel Things Fall Apart
The role of the woman in African culture and literature, with a focus on sexuality and masculinity in Chinua Achebe's novel Things Fall Apart.


Enjoy a dramatization of Things Fall Apart


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