dimanche, février 07, 2010
Rev and Mrs. Haggard's pillow talk & other old world marriages
Where's the disparity in other inappropriate consensual illicit relationships with powerful men?
John Edwards got a baby-mama. Had he embraced that relationship, we might be in a different space. Look at the Haggards, and the Clintons staying together after infidelity. Sure, I want to know about the kind of parent and partner of any candidate- not just Mrs. Palin. What family and kinship means in America is not the traditional husband/wife marriage. What about the blended families? And this is one of the roots of modern homophobia and bans on so-called gay marriage. Folks are scared that gay people will actually queer marriage, that we will actually provide the space for consenting adults to Ask and Tell, to negotiate and determine the terms of their relationship, and do so outside the 'normal' model. That seems to scare folks to death, and public response to the Edwards, Haggards and Clintons- whose marriage was made a national agenda complete with maddening public funding around the impeachment. Again, had Hilary written the sort of book Mrs. Haggard wrote, she might be signing her husband's Don't Ask Don't Tell policy out of commission, among other truly human-family, community-building initiatives to expand and not contract rights, based on the immoral judgements made by a few fundamentalist folks who long for the good ole days when women and Negroes stayed in their place, and the world seemed in order. Indeed, the intersection of race and marriage has its own story between the powerful and oppressed, demonstrating that where power disparities are involved, there is never consent.
Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry
jeudi, janvier 21, 2010
If Pat Robertson is right about Haiti...
Kudos to the Haitian ambassador to the United States for sending that fool Robertson to school!
Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry
lundi, janvier 18, 2010
mercredi, janvier 06, 2010
Die Heiligen Drei Könige (Three Wise Men) Epiphany
Today is the day when we here in Germany are likely to see the harmony and cooperation across races that we still seek in other areas of our lives. Today is the day that Blackface is not a minstrel show, and jokes about Buckwheat being Obama won't hold any weight, like on other days. Today is the day when a Black child approaching a 'normal' German house will be greeted with open arms, and not suspicious glances. Today is the day in German speaking lands where the fellowship of humanity is observed above all that could separate us. Today is the day when we lay down our arms for armistice and at least pray for peace, for He is coming.
I am not a Christian, yet have a deep appreciation for the life of Jesus. Today is the day that we realize his birth, over and beyond his death. Today, I extend a hand to you, all of you who believe in the Prince of Peace, and that humanity must realize this dream, and that humanity can realize peace on Earth.
Happy 'Epiphany' to all my German Christian friends and family. Here's a sweet gift to you, building bridges of culture across the Atlantic.
samedi, décembre 26, 2009
jeudi, décembre 17, 2009
Reviewing comments for the video 'Black people in America hate immigrants?'
I am quoting this to remind more people that we all have the capacity to be humane or cruel, kind or nasty, ignorant or mindful. It's all just a choice that we must each make individually, each day of our lives. Do we touch with with out kindness or lash out with our own ignorance & shame? You decide!
Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry
mardi, novembre 10, 2009
'Pimp of The Year' is a composite of today's best rappers
Uh-uhn! Why did his fish bowl have to break. Is he not the composite of 50 Cent, Nellie and a whole bunch of other modern damn day thugs! Dreaming behind bars of a better day, and can't to nothing but rap about cash once they get out of the pen or the ghetto. "Bitch betta have all MY money. She betta have all my cash!" I really, really am gonna get you, sucka!
Good Hair: Tangled Identities
"Who steal my bleaching," chants Fela, to which I add: Who steal my conk?
lundi, novembre 09, 2009
Advocate for the Public Option: Open Letter to my politicos: President Obama, Alabama Senators Sessions and Shelby
samedi, octobre 31, 2009
The Award for Best Slapstick still goes to the Evans Family.
"I got $4 that I was saving to get my Fro together," has to be one of the best Sit-Com non-laugh lines ever!
lundi, octobre 26, 2009
Chris Rock On Tyra Banks Show October 08 Part 1: Come on out, Tyra.
Listen at Tyra trying to weasel out of the reality that she still is decolonizing her mind. NO! It would not take five years. You could chop that conk out right now, just like Tyra had some other girl come on her show and have her boyfriend cut off the woman's feet-length hair. A week of new-growth and she's got a new do, but even Tyra won't do that. It's ok, we all understand it's a process. No, she's not coming up out that conk just yet.
mardi, octobre 13, 2009
A GAY HERO: Victim (1961)
Wait: A gay hero? They are going to unmask the 'blacky' and solve the murder. But will all turn out dandy?
Pow! Boom! Crash! Crunch! No punches, just blows. This was 1961, and this scene at least was the birth of the gay hero. We see the people mourning over their losses, and folks belittling on others' debts- this is a real feel good flic with al the highs and lows of any melodrama. Instead of a red suit with emblems and tights, this hero wears his dignity and refusal to be silenced by shame.
lundi, octobre 12, 2009
Ask, tell: Gay or Straight, I'm still "the darker brother"
They keep on sayin': Go slow! And then they seamlessly continue to quickly send children into battle.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they block universal healthcare or any measure that would 'cover' everyone, even the least of us- and then they mock and chide the least of us, calling us lazy and without 'merit'.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they continue to expect less of him and more of her- mommy'll do it; she always does.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they preach peace and wage war.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But kids who come to school hungry and tired already do too slow!
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But white collars steal and blue collars get a raw deal.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But they actually still believe that 'merit' is the only factor determining our success.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But no one really wants to talk, and fewer are interested in compromise.
They keep on sayin': Go slow! But that's just the trouble: Too slow!
vendredi, octobre 09, 2009
Nobel Peace Laureates
President Barack Obama won the Nobel Peace Prize in 2009 for his efforts towards strengthening diplomacy and international dialogue. The two are seen speaking in Nairobi in 2006 when the then Senator Obama visited the motherland.
Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry
lundi, octobre 05, 2009
Baller, author, 'Bama native Charles Barkley affirms 'race' matters in Alabama's race
mercredi, septembre 30, 2009
Dodge Ball and Too Much Pressure on Str8 Couples
NPR's Tell Me More recently reported on Hampton University's new National Center on African-American Marriages and Parenting, which opens this week with a summit on the so-called family. This so-called 'family' is inevitably anchored down to two people- the ideal American statistic. Here, host Michel Martin prompts Hampton University Professor and chair of Psychology, Dr. Linda Malone-Colon.
MARTIN: What about same sex marriages?
Prof. MALONE-COLON: I think that's a whole different issue that requires, I would say, maybe its own summit.
(Soundbite of laughter)
Prof. MALONE-COLON: But the masses of African-Americans are heterosexual and that's where we're seeing a real problem that's having an effect on our children. So that's where I choose to and where I've been called to, if you will, give my attention.
mardi, septembre 29, 2009
See this documentary: Color Adjustment part 2 of 8
'Don't scare the white people into noticing you're a Negro'. Nat King Cole and a host of others represented back in the day. Here are some interesting musings on the above.
Tongues Untied - Dance My Ticket To
Essex Hemphill reading his poem "In the Life" in Marlon Riggs' film 'Tongues Untied'. It's all that.
lundi, septembre 28, 2009
Unreported World-Nigeria: Fire in the Delta Part 2
Unreported or 'under' reported, or perhaps all out mis-reported! I visited my family in the Delta, and apparently this perspective drives my view and sympathies. The journalist's smirk betrays the seriousness of polluting water around the delta people who have lived in harmony with the waters for several millennia. Global oil prices? Doesn't it matter that it's hard to fill up the tank in Port Harcourt?!? Oil analysts? Just put your hand in the water, slick!
vendredi, septembre 25, 2009
jeudi, septembre 10, 2009
Hitler, AIDS & other WMD
"AIDS is a mass murder" on the highest scale. HIV/AIDS is a weapon of mass destruction. You'd better believe that unless you speak about sex with your partner(s)- including history, likes and dislikes- then you're a potential victim. Check out the video below.(racism is a disease)
lundi, septembre 07, 2009
The H-bomb gets new clothes
dimanche, septembre 06, 2009
We the people can at least agree on raising our cholesterol (but screw universal healthcare)
American Healthcare: 1st hand experiences in the wealthiest nation
"Most of the people that are out there are no better off than I am, protesting against healthcare...Humana determines...." too much!
mercredi, septembre 02, 2009
In Living Color - The Black People's Awards
This show hilarious when it aired in the 90's, and I watched it in high school. This episode is from October 1992- during season four of a total of five seasons.
Now, as an adult, disappointed that the Black Best Friend- also know as Magic Negro- is still a mainstay on big and small screens. "Sassy next door neighbor?" "Best scared brother?" These ARE the 'ca-tag-go-rees' that genuinely exist today. Indeed, the bit with Whoopi being the only Black actress in the entire category is a situation still mirrored today, where a handful of roles go to a handful of talents. In Living Color really got it right this time!
lundi, août 31, 2009
Which Way Is Up? - Full Movie, part 3
What kind of sick, sadistic sh*t is this? He stalks her, accost her in the park, lies to her, falsifies information to win her, tramples upon her, attempts to rape her, cries after her as she runs away...and within a few magical flashes of silliness later, she's naked cooking for him, gives into his passive-aggressiveness, and makes him promise never to sleep with any other woman again, including his wife. What kind of sick fantasy is this? This is some stereotypical male fantasy world where women really do just submit.
samedi, août 22, 2009
Reply to Congressman's response on healthcare ("and sometimes I wonder why I didn't become a debutante")
Be well,
Diepiriye
LitGriot.com
"Everything interdependent, interconnected. If you harm others, you get suffering. If you help others, you get benefit."- Dalai Lama
Dear Diepiriye Sungumote Kuku Kuku-Siemons,
Thank you for contacting me with your views on the America's Affordable Health Choices Act. I appreciate your comments and I welcome this opportunity to share my thoughts.
As I visit with the citizens of southeast Alabama, I hear about the challenges many families face in getting good and affordable health care. Please be assured that I understand these concerns and will continue to work diligently on your behalf to increase access to quality and affordable health care. As you may know, Congress has been drafting and debating health care reform for several months now. I look forward to working with my colleagues on both sides of the aisle when we return in September to ensure that common sense solutions are considered by Congress.
Making quality health care affordable to every American is no simple task. The issue is incredibly complex, and Congress must ensure that any changes we make do not undermine the stability and quality of our current health care system. Recently, several House committees worked together to develop health care reform legislation, America's Affordable Health Choice Act, H.R. 3200. As I continue to review the 1,018 page bill, I remain firm in my opposition to it, though I believe there are several important initiatives in the bill.
One of my main concerns is with the creation of a public health insurance option, also known as the public option. The public option, as outlined in the legislation, would be offered through the Health Insurance Exchange and must meet the same requirements as private plans regarding benefit levels, provider networks, consumer protections, and cost-sharing. The legislation will also require the public plan to offer basic, enhanced, and premium plans. Additionally, the plan will finance the costs of the public plan through revenues from premiums. Federal funds will only be used to create the program. However, I am concerned that the public option will potentially undermine the competitiveness of a private system. We simply cannot implement an overreaching government-based program. Instead, I am committed to finding a market-based approach that can insure more American citizens.
As you may know, the Blue Dog Coalition, of which I am a member, has not taken a formal position on the health care legislation but has expressed a set of principles and concerns to the committees and House leadership. I am proud of the work the coalition has done to slow the process and allow members to consider the bill and discuss its provisions with constituents during the month of August. Over the past several weeks, many compromises were made between the committees and the individual Blue Dogs. One of changes negotiated increased the exemption for small businesses that do not provide health insurance. Another compromise allowed doctors and hospitals to negotiate reimbursement rates for participating in the public health insurance option. Though these were positive developments, they do not go far enough in my mind. The current bill still relies too heavily on taxing individuals and small businesses, and the overall cost of H.R. 3200 remains too high.
Please be assured that when it comes to health care reform, my priorities are maintaining quality of care, alleviating burdensome costs for small businesses, and expanding access to care by implementing cost saving mechanisms. Consequently, I am opposed to the America's Affordable Health Choices Act in its current form because it does not appropriately address these concerns. I look forward to working with Republicans and Democrats in the House and Senate on drafting and debating health care reform legislation. I am aware that this is a tremendously complex bill, but please know that you can call my offices at any time as additional questions arise. I am honored to represent you and look forward to our continued conversations. I will always keep your thoughts and concerns in mind as Congress moves forward on this important issue.
Again, thank you for contacting me. I appreciate your thoughts and value your input. Please do not hesitate to contact me or my office regarding this or any other matter that is important to you. If you would like to learn more about my positions on the issues or receive regular updates on what we are working on in Congress, please visit my website at www.bright.house.gov and sign up for my e-Newsletter.
Sincerely,
Bobby Bright
Member of Congress
lundi, août 17, 2009
Normal, regular life for women in uniform? See: Sex in the Army - USA
"1 in 3 women" are assaulted in the army, according to some estimates. Rape and murder cover-up of LaVena Lynn Johnson is just the tip of the iceberg. Humiliation, constant teasing where the choices are between bitch and whore? And to whom does one complain in the military? Assailants go unpunished and victims are further victimized. Oversight is under-performed, especially when rape and sexual harassment in the military exceeds that of the civilian population.
"Kill herself, set herself on fire, set the tent on fire."
Deaths amongst female soldiers in this way is deplorable. It's sad when civilians have to fight these battles.
"The Closet" Great short flic!
From the star: An old man recalls the moment that defined his life, in which his innocent friendship with a neighboring boy is crushed by the boy's angry father. Starring Andy Scott Harris.
Classic Male Privilege: John Amaechi on Paula Zahn
"You must fall on your sword for us to give you a chance!" Homophobia and heterosexism is widespread, and yet no journalist addresses this...they just want to swordsman.
It's insulting how the reporter harps on this point, and exposes the misogyny in our societies: Are you attracted to any teams members? The underlying assumption is that men prey on others, period. When straight men are attracted to women, andy woman is fair game? Well, that's at least how many act, and we say nothing better.
Male privilege, like heterosexual privilege, like white-skin privilege, is invisible. We can assume that everyone is straight, and that's our privilege. We can assume that white is the norm, and all others are special, or 'different'. We assume that everyone wants to be rich, so we all spend like we're wealthy.
Moving against hte grind is not the easiest, and raising the issue of privilege is even harder, basically because most of us are so unaware. Speak about how race plays into everyday situations and folks are mad because privilege is unmasked. That's what happened here.
What if a team member drops the soap? The reporter said everything short of this, and resisted being so blunt. But what if? If a homosexual so devious that any available man is set to be preyed upon? Or, do we give ourselves so little credit that we simply accept that men prey on everyone? The reporter's line of questioning reveals the way in which we accept male privilege as a truism. Amy male will prey on any flesh; so a gay male will intrude upon his teammates.
Amaechi, who is of Nigerian decent, refused to answer these questions uncritically. Besides, the reality of homophobia has ALWAYS been that it threatens to arouse the same-gender loving feelings that are potentially held in any and all of us. All the sport-man camaraderie, the rough-housing and slapping, all proxy for the actual affection many men long for. Yet, rather than give a man a hug and simply say "I love you," many men are more able to use their fists and spew words of hate. Indeed, we live in a society that teaches males many more ways to hate than to love. The homosexual- HIS very existence- stands in the face of such male privilege. This, too, is threatening.
Quincy Jones, Jackson's Mentor
A bit of dialogue about the mutual mentor/disciple relationship between Michael Jackson and Quincy Jones.
vendredi, août 14, 2009
SoVo: Youth to speak out at town hall meeting on bullying
See original article at Southern Voice: Youth to speak out at town hall meeting on bullying
Shared via AddThis
dimanche, août 09, 2009
G.I. Joe Movie Not American Enough
I resent being taught to demonize any other form of economy or governance than free-market, unregulated capitalism. GI JOE, Wonder Woman, Superman, Captain America, all indoctrinate kids into a way of life so that we cannot even make choices free of these inherent bias that we may not even realize we have. It colors even how these health care debates go when Americans believe that anything government implies communism, and that's bad all around.
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost
mercredi, août 05, 2009
Combing the kink out

Anything for straight hair. The first lady of the nation and the first lady of Hip-Hop all have straightened hair. "Just to get those kinks out." Every girl in my family has gone through this and I wonder why we really need to get our hair "done." Rough. Abusive? What about charges? Haven't we all already abandoned her, anyway. We've already told her that she ain't no body unless your hair gets done! Why can't we be nappy, kinky, happy some-bodies! People regularly talk as if nappy hair was the most negative thing on the planet. We won't feel good about ourselves with this in tact. We've long since abandoned this girl.
Nappy ass hair Broke ass kitchen
If we are to be honest about who we are, white America needs to know the pains MOST Black girls go through in order to arrive at an acceptable- let alone respectable- place in this nation. Indeed, all our Black icons straighten their hair. Most, like the mother in this video.
Self-hate amongst the formerly enslaved runs deep, and no amount of denial can mask Black-Americans’ attempts to not be so damn black. Consider this video circulating on YouTube each time you view Beyoncé on stage, hopping and hollering, gallivanting and hair shaking.
‘Everybody wants hair that moves’ my mother says. Sure, whites tan, spending hours and major cash on bronzing tools to look like they are not! Yet, the power equation is wholly different for the oppressed. While whites can flip on any channel, open any glossy, or page through any journal and see all sorts of images that show the good, the bad, the beautiful and the ugly.
“Nappy head girl” the adult woman insults, straddling the small child down on the floor, briskly combing out her hair. How ever will she learn to love herself when at home all she hears is that she's born wrong. The clear statement here is that your ‘nappy ass hair’ is just plain WRONG. Another young girl can be heard commenting in the background. She is perhaps the videographer, capturing a ritual to which she is probably already numbed, as are many reading these words. Straightened nappy hair is the primary way that most are exposed to nappy hair.
My charcoal skin little cousin has but few resources that remind her that she’s not just ‘Dark but beautiful’ as people have said, as if to excuse her for being s damn dark. Yet, none of her teachers in school remind her, none of the glossies we buy tell her, none of the channel surfing we do on cable, and none of the music on the radio convinces her that Black is beautiful.
That’s why “I’m Black and I’m proud” is political. And for those few years when James Brown was between his conk, for the few years that the Godfather of Soul wore his own natural hair, he made it a statement. He picked his nappy hair out, releasing all but a few of those kinks, to form an Afro- a hairstyle that requires much ado about nothing; though admittedly it was much, much more than the legacy of the nation’s first female and first Black millionaire had done.
Madam C. J. Walker made millions helping Black people get rid of those naps. Have we felt any freer? Years later, the wealthiest (self-made) woman in America is Black. And, no place does she go with her won natural hair. It’s damn straight. She’s got her own TV network, and save for her roles in The Color Purple and Beloved, her kinks are long gone.
Nappy Ass Hair:
mardi, juillet 28, 2009
911 Call, Police Audio In Gates Arrest Released By Police
This officer WANTED to make an arrest, by any means necessary. That's the real deal here. That's the frightening deal, here. Liten up: A-scuse me missa occifa, but, uhm, wuz all this neccassary?
Read the Article at HuffingtonPost
lundi, juillet 27, 2009
E Lynn Harris passes this July
His books opened many conversations and made real the reality of sexuality in many ways for many folks. This author will be missed.
dimanche, juillet 26, 2009
mardi, juillet 21, 2009
"Wife-beaters-n-jeans!" Chris Brown speaks out.
But They Told Me
A Man Should Be Faithful
And Walk When Not AbleAnd Fight Till The End
But I'm Only Human
-Michael Jackson
dimanche, juillet 12, 2009
Obama goes to Ghana
The West has often approached Africa as a patron or a source of resources rather than a partner. But the West is not responsible for the destruction of the Zimbabwean economy over the last decade, or wars in which children are enlisted as combatants.

Obama is clearly not a descendant of cotton, cane or tobacco pickers. The gesture, however, is immensely appreciated. Can't wait to see what 'Chelle, Malia and Sasha have to say about this visit in the years to come. My mother and I visited Gorée Isle off the coast of Dakar together back in 1999. It afforded us an unprecedented quietude and opportunity to cultivate compassion for all involved in the Trans-Atlantic Slave Trade.
lundi, juin 29, 2009
LitGriot on AlJazeera: Dancing to fight discrimination in India - 27 Jun 09
OK, comment please. I am not sure what to say.
samedi, juin 27, 2009
Jackson 5 IN AFRICA
Wait! Is this really were Michael got his confidence in polyrhythmic beats and complex rhymes....
mercredi, juin 24, 2009
48 Hours. Responses to the Outlook article "India is Racist, and Happy About it"
You seem to be willfully ignoring other evidence that clearly says Indians are racists. The authors partner is a white. Falling head over heels in trying to please a white man while totally ignoring the black man is not just fascination of white skin as you put it. That is racism pure and simple. The fact that an Indian is fascinated by white man is racism. The fact that Indians make passes at a white woman or a north East Indian woman thinking that she is easy too is a form of racism. The fact that Indians ignore or insult a Blackman is racism. The fact that A Blackman was told to come back on Blacks only day at a night club too is racism. And all this does not include the discrimination faced by Dalits.I have seen how the black people were made fun off at Surathkal REC, near Mangalore. Also many used to consider Africans. Irani and Iraqi students to be dumb.
The infants who stared at you are not born with racism in their head or heart. It's their parents and society who "guide" these infants to be racist from a very early age. Did they smile at you or detest you, when they stared?
Dear Diepiriye, You have highlighted something which is not part of public or private discourse in Indian life. Parents seldom teach their kids sensitivity and respect for diversity. Quite surprising given we are such a diverse country! Thanks for your article.
Has anybody noticed that Mr. Kuku is just an "african-american" and not a proper "amrican". It's not even an issue let alone racism for him. [sic]
There we go again, blindly defending our country. It is the culture stupid! The great Indian culture that entitles us to ‘gawk’ or stare at anything that stands out. And how dare foreigners come into this country and not ‘adjust’ to the culture. Of course, when we go to other countries, we scream ‘racism’ at the smallest incident.
One small amateur video by some one on the American TV some times back where the white policemen hitting and beating a black youth like how an animal is treated was broadcast ed resulting in heinous riots by the blacks.
KUKU should have come along with his black female companion which could have reduced his tensions and the strange experiences being in India.I suspect some missionary took this KUKU to the media.Dont worry about the general population of this country.we are us and not for the foreigners or their culture.You are free to go along with KUKU to Suadn or USA and happily get married to him as now Gay marriage is legalized there instead of simply cursing India and its common people. [sic]
if a guy sitting behind you in a bus tries touching your hair( usually tied in really funky fun and different styles , and colours) it can also be out of simple humna curiosity. [sic]
mardi, juin 23, 2009
Tyra Bank's S&M and misogyny.
Tyra Banks wears a weave and cut this young women's hair off shorter than her own. "And do you wanna continue to look older and feel older?" Tyra asks as the young women cries. Tyra coerces her man into sheering this lady, and even brags that the woman's meter long hair will go into her hair weave fund. And Tyra's little S&M pun revealed the real story of what's going on. Women hating. And worse, women hating women.
Before and after.
Sexy arms. "I don't know who this person is!" She says mean things and brags about her show's ability to transform lives through rich hair color. "Precision" hair and designer make-up made her a real decent fiance. And that's the real story- her worth on the market. it's as if Tyra, the audience, she show's staff, and the fashion faggots are all there to make sure that straight man is titillated.
Diepiriye: Constructing Global Citizenry
vendredi, juin 19, 2009
Quick Critique of 'unradical' Feminist Critique
Over four books, Achebe demonstrates a spiral of conflict and resolution, layering these stories, and having them mirror one another. This means that the internal conflicts mirror the one's the characters face in the world, and brilliantly, Achebe breaths life and depth to his characters by demonstrating how their internal dialogue informs their view of themselves as well as their actions. So, fate is a clear matter of cause and effect in the Things Fall Apart cosmological world.
This sort of cause and effect relationship towards fate- distinct from what many view as tragic in Greek tragedies in skirting this issue- implies a culture of dialogue, not suppression, or repression. It acknowledges conflict as inevitable to humanity, and anyways conflict provides instances to apply community-centered dialogue and therefore create widespread growth and change. It therefore implies that an individual has not only the right but also responsibility to express their authentic selves.
Suppressing feminine traits is the axis upon which the main protagonist spin throughout Achebe’ tetralogy. In things Fall Apart, Achebe laid out the intergenerational crisis in gender identification. The main protagonist rejected his own father’s feminine traits and artistic inclinations, and as a result rejected his own effeminacy. He expressed this rejection outwardly, projecting this hatred of the feminine onto anyone or thing which he can label as feminine. He collects and beats women, abuses and murders children and is dismissive of local custom and beliefs. The crisis in Things Fall Apart lay as heavily on this crisis of masculinity, which Achebe mirrors with the cross-cultural crisis with the presence of Christian proselytizers.
Naturally, this power has the potential to get abused, and there is still social hierarchy, i.e. oppression. But the genius of this book and of the African culture that Achebe describes, provides an outlet for those inevitable conflicts: Dialogue. It’s when dominance enters the game and closes the possibility of difference that things really began to fall apart. Certainly, Achebe has clear views about this crisis, but he in no means romanticizes heteropatriarchy. Indeed, his is mainly a treatise on masculinity, as much as gender is necessarily deconstructed in the creative, artistic, and empirical world. Achebe wrote some bomb-ass novels!
If we sincerely count gender and gender relations, we should count correctly. Reducing gender to binaries and fixing them in their normative heteropatriarchal role- husband and wife- divests from the potentialities fulfilled in other roles as parents, children, grand-parents-grandchildren, nieces, nephews, caregivers, friends.
Imbedded in this feminist analysis is an idolization and idealization of heterosexuality so much so that it convinces us that this one relationship should trump all others, with little deviation. Forgiveness, in that constellation, is divine and often only comes with divine intervention.
In a culture of dialogue, however, and one responsible and responsive towards humanity, forgiveness is a daily expression of gratitude for life. It views love as cyclic, an idea build on care and reinforced through ritual. Certainly, oppression emerges, yet in his capacity, Achebe made a critique of the causes and mal-effects of misogyny- that character ultimately killed himself, so much did he hate an aspect of femininity in him. Hence, the suicide of Achebe’s main character is one important critique of heteropatriarchy and heteronormativity- as if Achebe encouraged, as traditional Ibo society does, a balance between masculine and feminine energy in everyone.
Suppressing either, and certainly hating one, would lead to an identity crisis. Any feminist critique which centers upon the Mary/Joseph (heteronormativity by any means necessary) relationship ignores human agency and avenues to both express and experience care while hoisting the mantle of women’s liberation. Liberating humans from their sense of humanity is alienating and as crisis forming as the myriad of effects of the gender-identification crisis one faces anywhere-albeit along specific and culturally informed axes.
Yet, any critique, which only regards the heterosexual relationship, abandons other areas of care and support. This abandonment is repeated as a self-fulfilling prophecy- abandoning care leads to abandoning care. Hence the love and abandon that dominates our pop music should come to no surprise Heterosexual romantic love will conquer all. And when that love goes bad- kick him to he curb, cut off his balls or burn her house down. When conflict arises, they easily abandon one another. All goes as expected.
See original article that inspired this critique here:
A Feminist Analysis of Chinua Achebe's Novel Things Fall Apart
The role of the woman in African culture and literature, with a focus on sexuality and masculinity in Chinua Achebe's novel Things Fall Apart.
Enjoy a dramatization of Things Fall Apart
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